WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING?
EVERYTHING IS CHANGING.
I CAN’T DEPEND ON ANYTHING.
NOTHING MAKES SENSE ANYMORE.
I’M TOTALLY COMING APART.
IT ALL SEEMS TO BE OK.
I FEEL HAPPY AND CONNECTED.
LIFE IS REALLY VIBRANT.
EVERY DAY FEELS LIKE A NEW OPPORTUNITY.
SOMETHING REALLY RADICAL IS HAPPENING:
The world and society as we have known it is coming completely unraveled. As without so within ~ almost every person I talk to these days is in the midst of massive change, transition, upheaval and re-creation.
It’s time to make a MAJOR CHOICE:
Are you here to SURVIVE or are you here to THRIVE?
We are currently rewriting the patterns and programs through which we manifest our lives, our relationships, our work and our love. It can be pretty disorienting. But, it’s THE ONLY THING IT MATTERS. It’s the Path of Awakening. IT’S THE PATH TO THRIVING.
It’s THE CHOICE as stand at the threshold of a new world. Choose contraction or choose expansion. Choose protection or choose co-creation. Choose “the box” of the old behaviors, old personalities, old stories, or open to the wild, super-engaged vibrancy of SOUL.
We’re entering the AGE OF SOULVIVAL.
Can you name one pattern in your life – like resistance, judgment, arrogance, neediness, isolation, showing-off, protectiveness or distance – that you are ready to let go of?
What is this patter GIVING YOU? In other words, what DO YOU GET by holding onto it?
WHAT WILL YOU GET BY LETTING IT GO?
Chances are, letting go will allow you to be more in harmony with YOUR SELF, with life, love and CHANGE.
Can you name a new, more harmonic and higher functioning pattern to replace an old one? Can you support this new pattern through an affirmation of your new world-view and/or a mindfullness practice? This will help you to cultivate not only a new STATE of being, but a new and permanent TRAIT OF BEING that will affect long-term shifts in the ways you behave, make choices and engage relationships.
Example: My resistance has been a way to stay safe within the narrow confines of my own experience. It has helped that introvert in me to maintain her aloneness, but it has also prevented me from SO much growth, connection and learning. This shows me that I could choose to be more curious. I now meet resistance as a wise friend who lets me know that I need to move slowly with awareness and openness.
Example: My arrogance has been a way of protecting myself from “being wrong”. It has trapped me in a stance of invulnerability where I feel like I need to defend being right in order to maintain control. When I RELEASE arrogance and the need to be right, a lot of amazing things happen. I get to be more connected, curious and intimate with a lot of people. I get to be equal. I get to LEARN. I get to follow. I get to be “a part.” And, I get the vast PLEASURE of being changed by the love and intelligence of my fellow community members, friends and colleagues. WOW! New traits: engaged humility and curious fellowship.
Please post comments and share your insights.
Where The Rubber Hits the Road in Transformation, or Why TRAITS Matter.